The last thing that I said to my ex-was: “You should find a girl lower on self-esteem for yourself.”
What was The Last Thing You Said to Your EX?
The reason I said so was that I felt I wasn’t given the treatment that I was probably worthy of. But now, that all of this is just water under the bridge, whenever I think about it, I realize how foolish it was for me to expect him to know my worth when I didn’t!
This one statement I made, made me look deeper into myself. To know my worth, I had to know myself, and for that, I had found myself! I was yet to find the person that I actually was, as until now, I was just someone living to please others, with a desperate need for social acceptance, I wasn’t aware of myself or anything, I was living life by chance and not by choice.
So it was then that I decided to live a more deliberate life. A life that I choose for myself. So I began by trying a lot of new things, which I would otherwise have been apprehensive of.From traveling to workouts, Tv serials, novels, movies, I try them all. I tried and experimented with my hobbies, routines, lifestyle, from scratch. I was trying to find the kind of things that engross me the most.And in the process of doing so, I not just gained experience and memories but also knowledge and some friends for life!
All in all, the last thing that I said to my ex-made I discover myself. Be extremely care for you put an end to any relationship and be even more thoughtful about the last thing that you say to him/her! Don’t just blurt out things in the heat of the hour, because (and I say so from personal experience ) the last thing that you say to your ex, defines how well you will be coping up with the breakup. So good luck on that!!
PS: Although I still wish if I had to speak to one more time, I’d want my last statement to him be: “”You were not a mistake made, you were a lesson learned .”